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Six years....

     Today, I hate today.  Six years is a long time.  I miss him so much.  I am still mad at him, still mad at God for taking him.  I loved him more than anyone.  I miss the sound of his voice, his laugh, his music, his hugs - man he had the best hugs ever. Losing him broke my heart in a way it has never been broken and I'm not certain I will ever recover.  I may slowly come back into the light, but I don't think my heart will ever be mended.  I even miss his moods!  I am still trying to figure out how to be in the world without him.  I am still trying to make peace with never knowing what happened.


   It's 2:00, the time the police showed up to tell what happened.  Please let this be over....

     

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  1. CindyDecember 31, 2011 at 5:04 PM

    Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
    Cindy

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